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Question by Gwen: How do I become more assertive in bed with my partner?
I am a very feminine 27 year old lesbian. In my past relationships I have always been the more “submissive” one, so to say. I recently started dating a woman who is most definitely more aggressive in life (and somewhat butch as well) but she is very submissive in bed, and I am struggling to find a balance. I’m really into her, and want our relationship to continue to grow, so I need some advice on how to be more assertive in bed!

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Answer by The Truth Hurts
Maybe you should start to be more “submissive” first. Like you make the first moe. Tell her to relax an enjoy the ride!

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Question by Susan F: How to be more assertive in life?
I have a huge problem being assertive and sticking up for myself. I wanted to know if anyone had any advice on how to stop being such a pushover. I let my friends be catty to me and make me feel bad constantly, I am getting taken advantage of at work, and in my relationship I let my boyfriend cancel plans and ditch me all the time. I am sick of being a doormat but am always trying to please everyone and have no problems with anyone.

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Answer by Sarah
I think i need to improve in that too. You just have to put your foot down. Don’t let them intimidate you.

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Question by : How can I be more assertive at work with getting a day off?
I tried to request a day off which I really needed and they wont give it to me. If it was anyone else, they would!! I feel walked on and because I dont speak up and I dont know how to be assertive, they take advantage of me and everyone picks on me at work because I am quiet. So any advice on how I can be more assertive? I want to speak up and be firm but therefore, not be rude and lose my job?

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Answer by Spindrift
After a certain amount of time at work you accrue personal time, I think it’s 6 months in most jobs, but you need to go to your mgr and request the day off. You can be assertive without being rude, the two are entirely different, assertive is demanding your rights in a calm quiet professional manner, and the quieter and more professional you behave, the more respect you will earn.

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Question by : How to become more aggressive and assertive?
I am too laid back, and i never give my goals the full attack they need. I back down in confrontation, and i try to be too gentle with people. And i hate it, how to i make myself more assertive?

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Answer by SBL
Just be straight with people. The majority of people who are passive or passive aggressive want to be liked by others and they fear that people will either reject them or dislike them if they don’t say yes etc. It’s hard to be assertive at times especially when you seek peace and harmony amongst others. However, when your direct and straight forward people tend not to take advantage of you and you can be assertive but still be a good person to others. Also I will tell you no matter how you act people are still going to talk about you or find something they don’t like about you. Don’t be a pushover, stand your ground and be firm but don’t feel guilty about being this way. You must do what’s best for you not others because people will still like you regardless.

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Question by Tristan: How can i make myself more aggressive in football?
My coach tells me that my technique and instincts are probably the best on the team, my problem is I don’t tackle and play aggressive enough. What can I do to make myself play angry and aggressive like LaRon Landry or Brian Dawkins?

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Answer by Bob
Eat raw meat, and bite yourself before every game.

Sarge

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Question by *Class of 2012*: How do i become more aggressive in basketball?
My coach told me i would be better at basketball if i was more aggressive but the thing is i’m not naturally aggressive. I like wouldn’t hurt a fly and really i don’t know how to be aggressive. Any tips?

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Answer by Habib
Your coach doesn’t mean aggressive like hurting people aggressive. Your coach means that you settle to easily for jump shots when you could possibly drive it in. You may be to scared to shoot and just pass automatically. If I were you I’d go to the park with a few friends on your team and play some pick up games. It’ll really help.

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Question by deux: What are some ways to become more assertive?
I always see the other person’s side. I seem to question myself and give people too many options when it comes to business. I back down and remain quiet and but undisturbed during an argument or negotiation but after I have time to reflect I get upset with myself, wishing I could have said something more assertive. I work in sales.

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Answer by Bill P
I am sure there is much assertive training available. I get invitations
to seminars, offers from colleges. Recently I received a brochure from
a school offering a graduate course in negotiations. A retired friend taught it for Dale Carnegie institute, so I am sure there is training
available.

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Question by Lesalei: How does one develop more assertive behavior?
I am looking for advice or opinions on this matter because I feel like I am a pretty strong individual, but I have a hard time allowing myself to be assertive when I am around unfamiliar people. I think I’m afraid of getting a bad reaction. Any thoughts?

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Answer by Rocky
practice on small animals

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Question by hutchyw117: How do I become a more aggressive poker player?
It may sound like a bit of a stupid question – obv just bet and raise more. But when I try to become more aggressive like you see on TV then I bust of tournaments very quickly, and people start to call my bets with high cards on the river!

How do these aggressive poker players like Tom Dwan and Phil Ivey do so well??

What’s makes a aggressive poker player? And how do I become a more aggressive poker player?

Thanks!

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Answer by Dr Pepper
bet more
and wear a cap facing forward and sunglasses dont let people read your eyes….

the whole game is about luck
try think what others are thinking make wacky decisions to stun your opponent

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